Endless conversation (cont’d)

Steve Chapman’s take on criminalization of gay sex is similar to mine. Like me, Chapman finds it amazing that the barbaric practices in certain countries actually have conservative defenders:

It may be hard to believe, but some 76 countries outlaw gay sexual relations. At least five — Iran, Mauritania, Saudi Arabia, Sudan and Yemen — make it punishable by death. In September, an Iranian human rights group reported that three men had been hanged for homosexual sodomy.

In many places, abuse is the norm. Gays across Africa “have been denied access to health care, detained, tortured and even killed,” reports The Washington Post. The Gambian president promised to “cut off the head” of any homosexual. These nations, we are told, are just trying to uphold traditional morality.

It’s one thing to say, as most Republicans do, that gays and lesbians should not be entitled to marry or enjoy protection against private discrimination. It’s another to say they deserve to be harassed, imprisoned or executed for being gay.

But some conservatives say it’s wrong for the U.S. government to protest such policies. They seem to think governments have a moral obligation to make homosexuality as miserable as possible.

This is a minority view. There was no groundswell of public anger in 2003, when the U.S. Supreme Court struck down ruled laws against gay sodomy. Nor has the GOP pushed a constitutional amendment to overturn that decision.

Americans may disagree on gay marriage. But they really don’t favor locking gays up — or harshly mistreating them — over private, consensual sex.

So what’s the problem if the State Department encourages foreign governments to stop punishing gays?

What’s the problem indeed? That was the simple point of my earlier post. But for reasons which are not quite clear to me, what Chapman calls the minority view (that governments have a moral obligation to make homosexuality as miserable as possible) seems to always be present in the comments at this blog. You’d almost think they were ever-vigilant, or that they really care about what I think. They may even care more than I care (a frightening thought I ought to care more about). Whether that obligates me to have an endless debate over a matter I think goes to basic human decency and common sense, I do not know. But the comments always persist long after these posts disappear from view, so regular readers don’t get to see them, and don’t get the full picture of what is going on in the blog. That isn’t quite fair to me, as I don’t like having these arguments, and I especially do not like having my time on the blog wasted on essentially invisible arguments. If, as Glenn Reynolds recently opined in his recent interview with Andrew Malcolm, a blog constitutes a “conversation,” then it would probably behoove me to do something to ensure that any conversation that occurs is in fact a public conversation and not a private one.

For these reasons, I was inclined to ignore the accumulating comments in the earlier post, and I never replied to the last invitation for me to continue debating (yet again) the minority view. The problem is, in this case it was more than just another unending debate involving me and a pro-criminalization commenter. M. Simon had also gotten involved, and he thought regular readers needed to know. He emailed me yesterday, saying,

it is 11 days old now. I think you should give it front page treatment with a link and an update note. Very important points.

Yes, they are important, but so are a lot of things, including the hectic Christmas rush. So forgive my lack of motivation. I hate things that destroy the spontaneous nature of blogging, and as I have said countless times, nothing I say obligates me to say more. I envy Glenn Reynolds and the bloggers who don’t have comments, because the problem with comments is that they can seem to create an obligation where there is actually none. M. Simon takes a very different approach, though. He willingly, even eagerly, debates any and all commenters on any and all topics until the cows come home. Were it not for his presence as a co-blogger, I might have turned off comments long ago.

And while Simon might enjoy these debates, for me the last comment from an unyielding defender of criminal laws against homosexuality reads like a damned homework assignment:

Neither Eric nor Simon deny the dysfunctions I’ve described in the gay “community” – so I guess they admit they exist – and maybe even endorse them…. But for the sake of argument:

Eric:
I objected here to the criminalization of homosexual conduct, and I did not mention “hatefulness” which I consider irrelevant.
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And I framed a justification for the longstanding criminalization of that conduct.

So what’s off topic?

And we both know that the hand-wringing about “hatefulness” is used in the PC bully-pulpit to shift public opinion.

Simon writes:
I guess if they decide to kill Jews because of their shared moral code you would be down with that.
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(OK – I win, since the first person to fall back on Nazi-name-calling obviously doesn’t have a real argument…)

We’re currently seeing fundamentalists and lefties exploiting Western freedoms to weaken the West – does that mean we should abandon Western ideas because they are corruptible? Or that laws should not reflect shared moral values?

You point to a valid weakness of all human systems of governance. The US Constitution provides some protection against that – but is still dependent on “reasonable man” standards at the end of the day….

… and Practically, the only people moving to delegitimize their opponents are the left-liberal PC crowd – as I listed above. So your attempt to play the “Nazi!” card is particularly ironic given the heavy hand of my-way-or-the-highway political correctness.

Instead of taking cheap shots – how about framing exactly how a non-judgemental legal alternative would work.

How about if I don’t? I really don’t like being advised what I should write about, but fortunately that last portion was directed at Simon so I’m partially off the hook.

But the part about the dysfunctional homos was directed at both of us, so I’ll start with that.  Whether I or Simon either “deny the dysfunctions” (that gays tends towards promiscuous sexual and other excesses) or not, the failure to address something is not an admission or an endorsement of it. Anyway, I didn’t address it then and I will not address it now — because it is wholly irrelevant to my point, which was not to debate the merits of the gay lifestyle, but to condemn criminal laws against homosexuality.

I am against the criminalization of drugs, as well as the prohibition of alcohol. Whether alcohol and drug users are dysfunctional and the extent to which they are has absolutely no relevance to whether their behavior should be a crime. At least, not in my mind. To those who insist dysfunctionality is relevant, and supplies a rational basis for criminal penalties, I would argue that if we assume a given behavior is dysfunctional, locking people up for it only compounds the problem, and punishing people for the state of being dysfunctional when they have not harmed others is tyranny. Makes as much sense as locking up the handicapped. So, I while think dysfunctionality is irrelevant to my argument, I would suggest that those who think it supplies a basis for criminal punishment have such a totally different view of the purpose of the criminal sanction than I do that we are not on the same wave length.

In my view, prison is inherently violent and brutal and should be reserved for those who hurt other people by using force or fraud against them or their property.  Period. That’s what I think, and in the nearly nine years I have been writing this blog, nothing has yet been said which would dissuade me from my opinion. And if imprisoning people is wrong, then this sort of savage brutality is even more wrong:

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As to the “justification” for the longstanding criminalization of homosexuality, which I didn’t address, here it is:

The “lifestyle” that is the norm in the gay “community” does not agree with widely held, COMPLETELY SECULAR (and not particularly Judeo-Christian) values:

– that healthy adult sexuality is linked to, and enriched by, shared intimacy and fidelity.

– that sexuality released from bonds of fidelity becomes exploitative, debasing, and hence corrosive to self and society.

I agree that shared intimacy and fidelity enhance healthy adult sexuality. I would be willing to bet that there are gay couples who feel the same way. I also think eating healthy foods, getting plenty of exercise and adequate amounts of sleep greatly enhance being a healthy adult.

So how is enhancing fidelity and preventing exploitative sexuality an argument for locking up the homos? Again, I don’t think such a goal even comes close to the proper function of the penal system. And if it is, isn’t it also an argument for locking up heterosexual adulterers? Take it as a given that sexual infidelity is a bad thing. A personal evil, even. Locking people up for it only adds more evil to the equation, and makes zero sense. I will never understand what I see as a grotesque misuse of the criminal law.

But I guess I am repeating myself. This argument will never go away.


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  2. Frank Avatar
    Frank

    It’s impossible to win an argument with them. Argue for marriage equality and you are put in the same category as bigamy & incest. Argue for individual rights and you are excluded because of your perceived criminal activity. Argue for tolerance and they hit you with moral equivalency, comparing you to a prostitute or rapist. Argue from reason and they selectively quote the bible, excepting their own adultery, or pork and shellfish eating.

    No matter how hard you try to be inclusive and tell them you respect their rights and their beliefs, they will never ever respect your right to exist. Homosexuality is an affront to their sensibilities.

    These weak kneed religious types know deep down that their beliefs are ill founded on religious dogma. Confront them with all the logic you want, and it won’t matter.

    Ben David, go lick your wife’s cunt, and then get back to me about my immorality and sexual dysfunction.

  3. Rich Avatar
    Rich

    The whole argument seems to ignore two significant questions:

    1. Even if you’re right about something, does that give you the right to impose your values on foreign governments (and it would be seen as an imposition by the governments involved) ?

    2. If you have the right, is it a smart idea to exercise it ?

    Certainly there could be circumstances in which the answer to both questions could be “yes”. But there could also be circumstances in which it wouldn’t be.

  4. Eric Scheie Avatar

    Frank, I see your point but I think insults are uncalled for here.

    Rich the US routinely object to religious stonings of women for adultery and various human rights violations. Voicing objections (which is what is under discussion here) does not impose values. Threatening a country with sanctions or war does.

  5. Frank Avatar
    Frank

    Ben David:

    “Private” sexual behaviors eventually impact the larger society.

    Focusing on homosexuality:
    The “lifestyle” that is the norm in the gay “community” does not agree with widely held, COMPLETELY SECULAR (and not particularly Judeo-Christian) values:

    – that healthy adult sexuality is linked to, and enriched by, shared intimacy and fidelity.

    – that sexuality released from bonds of fidelity becomes exploitative, debasing, and hence corrosive to self and society.

    And then he goes on to specifically lambaste gay male promiscuity as the norm of homosexuality. Nowhere does he mention lesbians, who comprise half or more of the gay community, who have been known for committed relationships rivaling straight marriages for years. Nor does he mention the thousands of gays who lined up in California in 2008 to get married, before he and his type slammed that window shut.

    The fucker wants it both ways. Gays are promiscuous, and they will damn well stay that way if he has anything to say about it. Never mind that there are thousands of us who never marched in a pride parade, who served quietly in the military, stayed with our mates until death, and otherwise would put to shame the serial adulterers and cheaters he gives a pass and would vote into the presidency.

    The man calls us whores, and I’m being insulting? No, I just thew into his face a very typical heterosexual sex practice so that he could reflect a little on his hypocrisy. Sorry if it was indelicate.

  6. David D Avatar
    David D

    I don’t know that I’ve ever met a homophobe who wasn’t also a closet case.

  7. Rich Avatar
    Rich

    Voicing objections (without sanctions or threats) is perfectly acceptable behavior. However, it usually doesn’t accomplish very much except to irritate the people whose actions you’re objecting to, which brings me back to question #2. Even if it’s right, is it smart ? If it’s not going to actually change the situation, is it really worth doing ?

  8. Simon Avatar
    Simon

    David D,

    I suggested that to Eric in our email exchange on the subject.

    Eric,

    Enjoyed the above reprise of our discussion but I want to repeat a comment I made in reply to the “Nazi” mention:

    To Ben David:

    I have a real argument. Nazis had special badges for Jews and gays.

    Just because you don’t like history doesn’t mean it didn’t happen.

    According to Nazi theory Jews AND gays are dysfunctional.

    Actually the rule is: the first person to adopt the Nazi argument loses. That would be you. And you know Jew hatred and hatred of gays IS traditional and long preceded the Nazis. They are just the most recent historical example.

    I guess that would make you a traditional values kind of guy.

  9. Simon Avatar
    Simon

    Frank,

    Much to Eric’s chagrin I’m rather a fan of your indelicacy. Must be my Navy background.

  10. Donna B. Avatar

    David D (and Simon):

    That assertion is generally meant as a discussion-ender insult isn’t it?

    I’ve been the recipient of it from the ‘other’ side of that coin when defending certain lifestyles — if I defend them, I must be one.

    It’s a heads I win, tails you lose coin, therefore a bit of a fraudulent argument.

  11. Frank Avatar
    Frank

    Simon, thanks. I have lost patience with these types. Instead of cooling the judgmental crap and pulling together to defeat the Marxist in Chief, they are all the more on their high horse now that Gingrich & Perry have given a green light. Makes me sick.

  12. Frank Avatar
    Frank

    Donna B., as I didn’t make that argument and you are addressing others, this is an unsolicited comment.

    You are right that it’s sometimes used to shut people up, on both sides. But it’s also a fact that in a lot of cases it happens to be true.

    A noted recent case was a Republican state Senator from Bakersfield who was in the closet for years, voted against his conscience to keep up the facade, and otherwise came across as a typical homophobe conservative Republican – until he got picked up driving drunk after leaving a gay bar in Sacramento.

    http://articles.latimes.com/2010/mar/09/local/la-me-ashburn9-2010mar09

    It is very common for gays in the closet to be overly moralistic to deflect suspicion away. That’s why I automatically suspect a closet case when men show such insecurity in their own professed sexuality that they must verbally or physically attack gays.
    Some even end up murderers, like one of the Williams brothers in Redding, CA 10 years ago. He ended up committing suicide in jail rather than face a court trial where he would be exposed.

  13. Donna B. Avatar

    Frank, you are correct. It’s sometimes true. David D is still wrong (and probably suffering from confirmation bias).

    It goes like this:
    A, B, and C all oppose something. A and B are white. Therefore C is white.

    Great thinking guys!

  14. Sarah Avatar
    Sarah

    Eric,
    that picture up there is one that haunts my nightmares. And the criminalization of private behavior was (among other things) the reason I wrote the last book I finished. I’m with you.

  15. John S. Avatar
    John S.

    Sarah, that photo still causes me intense pangs, too. I know it’s years after the fact, and I know what the outcome was, but still I pray for them.

  16. A Critic Avatar
    A Critic

    ” I will never understand what I see as a grotesque misuse of the criminal law.”

    It goes beyond a mere misuse to the point of being a crime itself.